You hire an expert to change your oil. You hire an expert for financial advice.
At The Real Matchmaker, we will act as your socially savvy personal dating recruiter to network through a variety of channels to actively scout personalized, quality dates just for you. Other matchmakers rely on their database to match you. We have found this ineffective and have revolutionized our matching strategies to cast our net farther and wider than any other service can. We take pride in drawing attractive, successful professionals into our single social network so that your dating life is transformed seamlessly.
Find success with services backed by decades of experience and hundreds of happy matches. You can meet professional singles, gather fun and creative date ideas, and look your best with help from a personal dating coach and image consultant.
You are a unique individual and deserve to be treated as such. At The Real Matchmaker, date coaching is more than just managing your dating calendar; we have a heightened sense of responsibility, respect, and caring devotion to our clients.
Whether you need tips for a first date or want to strategize about your image, we work with you on a highly personal level. As we rely on real connections and face-to-face meetings, be assured that you are never just another profile on a dating site.
Just wanted to let you know that the man you set me up on a date with back in March – Mark, we kept in touch all along but i wasnt sure he was my type…We began dating seriously not long ago and totally falling for each other. I am feeling like my prayers were answered- a true gentleman and worthy of my heart and my daughters too. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the date and introduction. It’s exciting, new, different, mature, safe spiritual,healthy and passionate. We go to church together and God definitely brought us together for a reason. Thank you so much…
Jessie, you did such a great job planning the Single to Mingle Event last night! I loved meeting everyone, ESPECIALLY Christina. We have a date on Saturday…I think she could be my match! You rock!!
Marina Del Rey, CA
Dating in Los Angeles can be such a headache. Jessie, you have gotten me excited about finding love again and I am actually having fun in the process. I always look forward to meeting my dates and have had more second dates through The Real Matchmaker than when I was searching for quality single men on my own. You really are the best dating service in Los Angeles-possibly the entire world!
Pacific Palisades, CA
Anni, If it wasn’t for your dating advice and scouting I wouldn’t have been in position emotionally to meet my current girlfriend. At the very least, I may not have appreciated how great she is. Thank you for everything!!!
Culver City, CA
I was blown away by the great food and great company at the single event you put together. It was so nice that you talked to all of us before the event so that we felt more comfortable. Conversations were so effortless and I can honestly say that this was the most organized and fun singles event I have ever attended. I can’t wait to attend the Date Me Game event you are hosting next month!
Beverly Hills, CA
After interviewing with several matchmaking firms, I am pleased to say that The Real Matchmaker is Upscale Matchmaking Services at fair and reasonable pricing!
Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
In a world of money making frauds, she is the real deal. Jessie took the time to meet with me, got to know me and listened to what my needs were and what I was interested in, then rolled up her sleeves and went to work. It’s very evident she knows what she’s doing, and takes great pride in taking care of her clients needs. The women she represents, and the dates she has arranged for me have been nothing short of extraordinary, and really fun as well. Really pleased to be working with her.
Jessie, you made me feel so comfortable during our matchmaking consultation. I felt like I was talking to a girlfriend! Thank you for taking so much time to get to know me. Your feedback on how I was holding myself back from meeting quality men was really insightful and inspiring. I can’t wait to meet my first match!
Santa Monica, CA
Anni, I am so impressed with your attention to detail and personal approach to matchmaking. So many dating events are cheesy and awkward and it shows that you put so much effort to set yourself apart from other dating services. I have learned so much from your dating advice and appreciate the candid feedback that you so tactfully deliver.
San Francisco, CA
Jessie has shown to be a warm encouraging fan and expresses a sincere desire to find a match. Her mixers are a nice range of both women and men and it’s easy to feel comfortable without feeling you are in a “single” situation. She’s a good listener, shows good humor, and is certainly engaging in her role as a matchmaker.
“The Real Matchmaker emerged because I felt a commitment to serve clients that went far beyond matchmaking. When you choose us as your matchmaker, you are asking us to administer your love life as the agent of your heart, your time and your energy... an honor we humbly receive.
It is this duty of responsibility to our clients that underlies every aspect of our service.”
« Jessie Kay, CEO and Founder